SEX ED WITH TEESHA MORGAN
November 3rd, 2010
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1. My girlfriend has a gay/bi friend who I know sees her naked once in a while (she will sometimes change in front of him, etc.). I can’t help but feel jealous. Am I wrong to feel this way? If so, how do I get over it?
I can’t give you a solid answer in whether you are justified in feeling this way, and I can’t tell you in a paragraph how to simply ”get over” this feeling. All I can do is offer my advice, which is far from original…. communication is key. If this situation really bothers you then share that with your girlfriend and express your concerns, thoughts, and feelings. If it is something that is really bothersome to you she should at the very least take what you are saying into consideration before undressing in front of her male friend again. However, if it is not simply this event that drives you to feel this way, but your emotions are jealousy driven often, then perhaps there are other things going on you need to address. Looking at where the jealous lies is key.
Jealousy is a mask, a mask that hides fear. So what are you afraid of? Is it that you’re scared that since he is bi and not ‘entirely gay’ that something might happen between them? Facing our underlying fear is what helps us to overcome the by-product – jealousy. So my best advice is to do some soul searching...










